Enjoying a long lunch or dinner is part of the pleasure of eating in Sardinia. Unlike in some countries, Italian restaurant staff may not automatically bring the bill as soon as you finish, because they generally avoid making diners feel rushed. When you are ready to leave, it is perfectly normal to ask for it politely.

The easiest phrase to remember

Simply say “Il conto, per favore”—“The bill, please.” It is clear, friendly and appropriate in a restaurant, café or trattoria. You can add a smile or say “Scusi” (“Excuse me”) first if the waiter is nearby: “Scusi, il conto, per favore.”

How to get the waiter’s attention politely

If the staff are busy, make brief eye contact and give a small, discreet hand gesture when the waiter looks your way. You can also catch the waiter’s attention with a quiet “Scusi.” There is no need to call across the room or wave insistently; a calm gesture is usually enough.

What should you avoid?

Avoid snapping your fingers, banging on the table, shouting “Hey!” or waving aggressively. These gestures can come across as disrespectful. Remember, staff may be serving several tables, so give them a moment to respond rather than repeatedly calling them over.

Why might the bill take a little while?

In Italy, meals often have a more relaxed rhythm, and servers may wait for guests to signal that they are ready to pay. During busy periods, it can also take a few minutes to prepare the bill. If you have a train, ferry or other appointment, ask for the bill a little earlier and mention politely that you are in a hurry.

Useful Italian phrases

  • “Scusi, il conto, per favore.” — Excuse me, the bill, please.
  • “Quando ha un momento, possiamo avere il conto?” — When you have a moment, could we have the bill?
  • “Possiamo pagare qui?” — Can we pay here?
  • “Grazie, tutto buonissimo.” — Thank you, everything was delicious.

A small tip about paying

Once the bill arrives, check it calmly and ask about any item you do not recognise. Depending on the restaurant, you may pay at the table or at the till near the entrance. If you are unsure, simply ask: “Paghiamo qui o alla cassa?” (“Do we pay here or at the till?”).

The simple rule

To ask for the check in Sardinia without being rude, make eye contact, use a discreet gesture and say “Il conto, per favore.” Italian dining is often unhurried, so be patient if the restaurant is busy. A little courtesy and a few Italian words will help you end your meal on a friendly note.